One thing I will say though is as a dog owner, having a dog that can't walk well on the lead is NOT a good look if you're trying to impress someone. My day is going very well how's your day? Depends on the guy, some guys will use a rain check to politely put someone off , and some who uses rain check actually means I would like to do that at a future date, he might be truly busy.
If I'm not at my best, I'm not going to be as thoughtful as I might be on a good day. I grew up caddying on the golf course as a preteen and if you paid to golf but got rained out after only a few holes you got a rain check. The ball is in his court IF he is interested. I never heard of a rain check before, and had to googled it, lol.
I'd leave the ball in his court to offer up another suggestion for meeting. Deciding after this happens once that the person is brushing you off could be a mistake, if you don't hear from them, then you know they were brushing you off and that's on them. It would probably make the walk pretty un enjoyable for you.
I figure meant he was busy. When they were feeling better or whatever issues they were dealing was over. Understood, I know I need to be interesting in her eyes which is why I do not want to text much since sarcasm is meh through text.. For actual reddit dating, try one of the subreddits listed below No Spam or Self-Promotion Spam will not be tolerated and repeated offenses will result in a ban.
If I'm wrong, he'll follow up with you. If im busy or make a promise I will keep it. I don't like texting, but if a friend asked me for a rain check after we agreed to meet I would have responded call me when you are available and then left it in their hands. It's kinda a say what you mean, mean what you say and do it culture without as much 'social niceties' as other people may expect. I would take her for her word.
Sorry to tell you that from the conversation he is not interested in a relationship outside of work. For now, give him the benefit of the doubt. I don't like texting, but if a friend asked me for a rain check after we agreed to meet I would have responded call me when you are available and then left it in their hands. She got back but didn't mention anything other than her day went no questions for me.. Being no stranger to this feeling myself, I would advise you do the following:
Sorry to tell you that from the conversation he is not interested in a relationship outside of work. If he is not But when someone says they are taking a rain check it means they do want to take what your offering.
And I believe this is true for all of us, men and women alike, whether or not we choose to admit it. Eye candy and cute doggies who can ask for more, lol. Now that's a date the guy certainly is glad he didn't take a rain check on -- having a pretty gal spend the night and wake up in the morning at your place as a result of the date! Clooneysmentor- I would just respond with ok, let me know when we can meet up again. I have received such messages before, several times. And I don't think ambivalent is a great quality in dating
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Can I take a raincheck? My day is going very well how's your day? I would take her for her word. I get a rain check from the golf course if I get rained out to come back again. That was only part I could not find when googling. It's an alien concept to me not to be upfront in the first place to just say so if she didn't want to go out again.
She's not SHY about it, most girls won't bring it up. So maybe I'll do the Thanks! Easy isn't the way to go because you're not being interesting to her eyes. I do not want to cause bad drama with him cause we are working right now with it. No soapboxing or promoting an agenda. Over the phone, text message, message on the site, whatever.
- The ball is in his court IF he is interested. You need to have a willingness to say something absurd even when it completely tanks, and still own it. So expect more stupidity coming out of my mouth in the future. Just a Something came up and I can't make it Friday night.
- I would tell him that the rain check is open and for him to let you know anytime he wants to use it. And see him next week its no big deal to me on that part. This involves splitting up your long posts into paragraphs, and proper punctuation and grammar. I have had this very thing happen to me
I would take her for her word. My day is going very well how's your day? It would be nice for her to bring it up but at the same time she did text me happy birthday, if she didn't care at all she wouldn't have, but some could analyze that as just being nice and that's it. Understood, I know I need to be interesting in her eyes which is why I do not want to text much since sarcasm is meh through text.. Sorry Clooney, asking for a raincheck for a second date via text without offering an alternative does not sound good. If he cancels again, then I'd get suspicious.
Sure, she may not be all that interested and sure, something could have happened between the date agreement and then to change her mind, but I could see texting what she said myself. Take it easy, she asked him if he wanted to walk their dogs together - it's not like she's asking for a long term commitment. If im busy or make a promise I will keep it. We work together but its not a permanent. Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate.
Understood, I know I need to be interesting in her eyes which is why I do not want to text much since sarcasm is meh through text.. When they were feeling better or whatever issues they were dealing was over. Want to add to the discussion? You're not showing your personality. I would take her for her word.
So expect more stupidity coming out of my mouth in the future. So Sunday we were supposed to go roller skating but her birthday was the night before so she was hungover and asked for a raincheck I replied no worries, feel better now today its my birthday and she texted me happy birthday hope you have a great day What's the best way in claiming this raincheck, should I just try to continue the conversation by responding and asking how her day is? Rain checks are for when you already made plans and then invited to something else